How I’ve coped being a single mum

Simple…. I HAVE TO my needs don’t matter no more. I’ve been on my own since pregnancy roughly 10/11 weeks pregnant.

Everything you see on my baby’s girl I got. My family has supported me through thick and thin. Don’t get me wrong I’d love to be like most mums all loved up with their baby daddy and and a happy family but unfortunately I never got that chance.

All my needs they don’t come first anymore and if I’m completely honest I do sometimes cry myself to sleep thinking what if and all of that but the thing is it’s never going to happen so first things first I needed to accept that and a year later I’ve accepted it.

I’ve been through more than most in the last 2 years but I’ve over done it. Talking to single mums myself and idolising then realising that nothing you can do will change the past. Look to the future.

So I wake up every morning look at my little girl she gives me a massive smile and we start the day together.

I CAN do this and I WILL do this. Not everything in life works out and I’m absolutely blessed with my girl and I’ve ACCEPTED it now. None of you females out there single parents or not need to rely on men. The thing I’ve realised and woken up to is that it’s normal to have failed relationships, it’s normal to feel like this at the end of the day we are all human even us mums.

So to anyone out there struggling to get through the day whether this is aimed at single mums, mums with their partners or just men/women in general please know you’re doing amazing and if you need any advice for self care please read my self care blog. I got you all! Thankyou all for being amazing

I just want to add down the bottom here Thankyou to everyone who’s read through my blog I will post my back story soon I just need some time to do it. Please read through my journey and encourage others to reach out! 💋💗